You read that right. Virginity is not important. The emphasis of Virginity by the society is misplaced and the message it carries along with it is very disturbing.
The more reason lots of ladies would strive hard to preserve a piece of covering over their v.agina and engage in lots of immoral act and still stand tall to declare themselves Virgins.
Virginity is not Important. Chastity is.. For those who wants to play by the rule.
Some people think that chastity and virginity are synonymous, but they are not. Not all chaste people are virgins, and not all virgins are chaste.
On the other hand, some people are technically virgins, but they compromise their purity in countless ways. Many virgins assume, ‘‘As long as I retain my virginity, I’m being good. Therefore, everything short of intercourse is
OK.’’
They engage in Anal s.ex
Give and receive fellatio
More experienced than the non virgins in se.xual activities.
Lets start from the scratch..
Virginity is a fact..A state in which se.xual intercourse has not taken place. It is the physical state of not receiving or giving penetrative se.x.
To be chaste is to abstain from se.x. A moral CHOICE not to have s.ex. Chastity doesn’t just start from our bodies, it starts
from our hearts… and our hearts inform what we do about our bodies.
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Whatever choice we make is entirely up to us. If two adults decides to share their level of in.timacy by having se.x, the ‘Virgins’ should stay on their lane with their brand of virginity and quit the condescending talks.
If you are a virgin and you aren’t chaste, you are fooling yourself. You can as well proceed by having penetrative se.x and be done with it.
Chastity has nothing to do with a Hyme.n.
Your hymen is worthless if you believe it validates you or make you special.
Your hymen won’t make you astounding
Won’t make you stellar
Won’t put money in your pocket
Won’t secure your future
Isn’t a guarantee to a good spouse.
Stop whining about your ‘Virginity’…it means nothing.
If you want to play it right, BE CHASTE
By blog reader
Vivienne Adaeze
